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As usual Necole, your articles always strike a chord with me. I know that feeling where you’ve gone a long time without that emotional or even a physical connection and the first thing that comes along you grab hold of it and effectively try and polish what you know is a turd. It takes a lot of courage to finally realise what’s not for you and walk away. That fear of going back into the desert can keep you locked down with the wrong one.

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Whew!!

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Never felt a post so much in my life! I love seeing you in my inbox. It is always exactly what I need to see!

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Thank you so much for the love! This is encouraging!

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This was so profound it’s literally like you just read out my story.

Touch starvation 🗣 loud it sis

It’s real

I don’t even know how I stumbled upon you or the gem that is this newsletter but I’m so glad I did

Shame your tribe doesn’t include us Brits

But from Ldn with love

Happy new year and thank you thank you thank you xxx

Keep it coming please

You’re speaking for so many of us! Xx

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We have some Tribe members from Europe! Savannah's repping Belgium! Thank you for your love and support!

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Ouch, Ouch, Ouch!!! Why you yelled at me so hard! This was soo needed, you’ve been dropping gold before the New Year but you came hard tuday sister! We women ALWAYS know we deserve better but we just have to taste that fire first 😔 “Dating with a scarcity mindset will always lead to heartbreak” (truth in a nutshell). May all our hearts be healed wholeheartedly in 2021❤️🙌

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Thank you so much for the love!!

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"I repeat: Dating with a scarcity mindset will always lead to heartbreak." Love this, I hope your heart has totally healed❤️

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I’m getting there 😩😩

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Love this and felt every single word! Thank you! Cheers to the victory lap!

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Thank you! 🙏🏽

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Wow, went thru the same issue, I thought I was ready to date after being single for two year, I thought I was healed but lord know I still have more inner work to do! It’s so good to know that it’s okay to fumble, as long as I pick myself up and not try to make the same mistakes twice! In the meantime, inner work still needs to be done! Thanks for this Necole x

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Thank you for reading! My friend said, "Why do we keep dating the same type of men?" I told her sometimes you have to do a level over and over to master it before you can move on to the next level." There's always a lesson to be learned.

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I felt like this article was speaking directly to me!!

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So glad you touched on the need for the touch of another human and the pitfalls that come with it.

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Touch starvation is a real thing that isn’t talked about often. Especially for single people who live alone.

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It’s the warning about dating with a scarcity mindset for me. That’s a gem!

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Joined the text tribe! <3 Thank you for all that you do!

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You were dropping gems! I am glad you have gotten back to writing more!!

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For cleaning I suggest following www.abowlfulloflemons.net cleaning challenge. She is an organization queen!

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Heyy Necole, I wanted to text you but I couldn't. Would you care to provide a number that's on whatsapp please?

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Thank you for sharing!

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Thank you for reading!

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You are preaching to the choir. I recently watched a sermon on YouTube and he said something on the lines of dating the same guy the only difference is their name. I hid my face from my laptop screen 🙈 lol. Red flags were there w/ this last one, but idk why I thought this time it would be different. Great guy actually just not the guy God has for me. I had to really ask myself why I felt I didn’t deserve anything but His best and why the last few were literally the same type of dudes just a different name.

After the vision board party your tribe hosted, it really resonated with me when Tera read one of her mantras talking about the past and it being just that. It clicked so much for me. I was already on the path of forgiveness for myself and leaving the past in the past.

Thank you for your vulnerability. There’s a lot of freeing and healing when in that space 🙏🏽. Also thanks for the recommendations. Definitely going to check out some!

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I definitely felt you during the Vision Board Party. So glad you are on the path to giving yourself grace. There are many valuable lessons we have to learn before we finally nail it and meet our one, get our dream career, and the list goes on! I appreciate you!

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Thank you. I appreciate what you’re creating for women so thank you 🙏🏽

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