OMG! Yes, I do know some men like that. I value their friendship because they remind me to not settle. I pray every woman marries (who wants to marry of course) a man who has these values about who he is marrying.
This.. is everything I needed to read at this exact moment. Once we start to settle for less, that’s exactly what we receive. We sometimes forget our worth dealing with low value men who chip away at our self esteem.
This...All of this.. I mean truly an amazing read ! And all facts. What you are, is who you attract. I was at a low point in my life and that’s what I attracted. But when I finally moved on (granted it took 8 years). I found someone who better aligned with my values. Also, watching Kevin Samuels videos on YouTube made me rethink life. Though his delivery is whack, he’s honest and gave me another perspective and realization, I need some self work !
This right HERE! I felt like you were really speaking to and through me.... please have more conversations like this.
It’s so important for successful women to be transparent about being single and also being single in there 30’s/40’s. I feel like society pressures us to feel like we need the baby, husband it all by a certain age— but you don’t need none of that if you are not truly self-aware of who you are. You mentioned you are what you attract. I’ve been attracted some really bossed up men lately because I feel I’ve leveled up tremendously. Please keep us updated and keep these coming. There is a audience for this type of dialog and we need you! Thank you! 💕
Exactly! I've been attracting a lot of high-quality men recently and so I know that what I desire is possible. But I'm also proactive in dating. When you kind of just wait for men to fall at your feet, you just settle for what's coming to you versus doing the choosing.
Reading this was a total inspiration in all areas of life! I enjoyed reading it and it put things in my life into perspective, it’s time for a life change. If we want better we have to be better.
I appreciate this post so much. Lately I’ve been feeling stuck and somewhat confused about my next steps in terms of career, love, and health so that part about working on yourself and having structure really hit me. I really need to get on track to making myself better, thank you!
This was amazing Necole!!! It was definitely worth the read!! Thank you for taking us down memory lane ☺️...I’ve been following you for years now and I love the woman you are becoming!! Keep it up sis 💛
This is an epic piece. I applaud you for doing the work and being transparent. I have been single and doing the work for 6 years now; giving myself the freedom to heal and prepare for my future husband. The value we place on ourselves communicates to others so much about how we see ourselves when we show up in our life experiences. We must be intentional as we set the tone for our relationships and make room and space for others to enter our lives. Excellent read!
"We set the tone for our relationships" -- That part! It takes constant self-evaluation and self-work. I'm loving the process. Thank you so much for the kind words!
Absolutely love the way you describe pieces of your journey. Thank you for sharing them. When you said the type of man you wanted to date wasn't going to date a gossiper, I thought to myself what type of man that I wanted, who was he going to date? Definitely will be doing some self reflection journaling. Thank you for this.
Thank you for sharing! Introspection & accountability are so important! We definitely have “to be” who we want to attract & KNOW that God will bring the perfect man for us in Divine Timing (when we both have done the work)🙌🏽
Wow Necole I read “The High Value Man a girl I enjoyed all of it thank u my Sista keep it up girl u a bad Girl don’t know if u have read Vivica Fox book
“Every Day I’m Hustling “ if not please read it’s a great read. And let your followers in on it they will love 💕 it
I looooove this... sharing is caring and I really didn’t know about high value man nor woman. Now I can see I had this kind of ppl in my live at a time lol and yes I want to be that woman!! Love you Necole ❤️
OMG! Yes, I do know some men like that. I value their friendship because they remind me to not settle. I pray every woman marries (who wants to marry of course) a man who has these values about who he is marrying.
This.. is everything I needed to read at this exact moment. Once we start to settle for less, that’s exactly what we receive. We sometimes forget our worth dealing with low value men who chip away at our self esteem.
This...All of this.. I mean truly an amazing read ! And all facts. What you are, is who you attract. I was at a low point in my life and that’s what I attracted. But when I finally moved on (granted it took 8 years). I found someone who better aligned with my values. Also, watching Kevin Samuels videos on YouTube made me rethink life. Though his delivery is whack, he’s honest and gave me another perspective and realization, I need some self work !
So I say to you both, thank you 🙏🏾
This right HERE! I felt like you were really speaking to and through me.... please have more conversations like this.
It’s so important for successful women to be transparent about being single and also being single in there 30’s/40’s. I feel like society pressures us to feel like we need the baby, husband it all by a certain age— but you don’t need none of that if you are not truly self-aware of who you are. You mentioned you are what you attract. I’ve been attracted some really bossed up men lately because I feel I’ve leveled up tremendously. Please keep us updated and keep these coming. There is a audience for this type of dialog and we need you! Thank you! 💕
Exactly! I've been attracting a lot of high-quality men recently and so I know that what I desire is possible. But I'm also proactive in dating. When you kind of just wait for men to fall at your feet, you just settle for what's coming to you versus doing the choosing.
High Quality should mot be conflated with High Value. Quality is internal, value is external.
Reading this was a total inspiration in all areas of life! I enjoyed reading it and it put things in my life into perspective, it’s time for a life change. If we want better we have to be better.
I appreciate this post so much. Lately I’ve been feeling stuck and somewhat confused about my next steps in terms of career, love, and health so that part about working on yourself and having structure really hit me. I really need to get on track to making myself better, thank you!
This was amazing Necole!!! It was definitely worth the read!! Thank you for taking us down memory lane ☺️...I’ve been following you for years now and I love the woman you are becoming!! Keep it up sis 💛
Thank you for supporting and still being on this journey with me!
Love love love this ! Well said and I agree With you 100%!
This is an epic piece. I applaud you for doing the work and being transparent. I have been single and doing the work for 6 years now; giving myself the freedom to heal and prepare for my future husband. The value we place on ourselves communicates to others so much about how we see ourselves when we show up in our life experiences. We must be intentional as we set the tone for our relationships and make room and space for others to enter our lives. Excellent read!
"We set the tone for our relationships" -- That part! It takes constant self-evaluation and self-work. I'm loving the process. Thank you so much for the kind words!
Absolutely love the way you describe pieces of your journey. Thank you for sharing them. When you said the type of man you wanted to date wasn't going to date a gossiper, I thought to myself what type of man that I wanted, who was he going to date? Definitely will be doing some self reflection journaling. Thank you for this.
Thank you so much for this. It came just in time to put a seal on my decision to not move forward with a certain low-value man. I appreciate you.
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I am 18 months into my journey and it has truly changed my prospective of not only dating, but life, and relationships as a whole.
Thank you for sharing! Introspection & accountability are so important! We definitely have “to be” who we want to attract & KNOW that God will bring the perfect man for us in Divine Timing (when we both have done the work)🙌🏽
Wow Necole I read “The High Value Man a girl I enjoyed all of it thank u my Sista keep it up girl u a bad Girl don’t know if u have read Vivica Fox book
“Every Day I’m Hustling “ if not please read it’s a great read. And let your followers in on it they will love 💕 it
I looooove this... sharing is caring and I really didn’t know about high value man nor woman. Now I can see I had this kind of ppl in my live at a time lol and yes I want to be that woman!! Love you Necole ❤️
This is exactly the door that I'm at and I'm ready to start working on becoming a HIGH VALUE ME